“I am on a Mission to restore Fetish to its rightful place of respect, love, and personal evolution for those of Us who are REAL Fetishists.”
~ The Mistress Didi*
The Mistress Didi* was born a Domina, remembering Her first BDSM experience at the age of 4 in kindergarten. Raised in a family of artists and medical professionals, The Mistress Didi* has benefited from an extensive education in the functions of the human body and psyche. The Mistress Didi* holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Therapy and is currently working on Her PhD.
Being a Lifestyle Dominant for Her entire life, The Mistress Didi* explored various aspects of the BDSM and D/s Scenes including 24/7 relationships, slave ownership, Professional Domination (before it became synonymous with “hoochies with whips“) and Fetish Event Planning. She believes that the goal of the Dominant-submissive relationship is self-evolution for both to grow towards becoming the best that We can be as individuals, to each other and to The Whole.
Expressing Herself as The Party Domme, The Mistress Didi* designs public and private ClassicFetish™ Events (many of which are charity fundraisers) which include parties, workshops and performances that express Fetish as Therapeutic Art. In Her quest to change the public’s negative view of Fetish to a positive and educated one, The Mistress Didi* promotes Fetish Appreciation and regularly writes articles, appears in the media, and gives lectures on and demonstrations of the Fetish Arts.
Through Her training in psychotherapy, neuromuscular therapies and metaphysics, The Mistress Didi* has developed Her own unique methods, called the “PleasurePain™ Techniques,” to allow you the perfect opportunity to explore the deepest levels of fulfillment through Dominance, servitude and submission – however they apply in your life. Her SensualSpanking™, BDSM Anatomy 101, MaxWax™ and Volume™ Workshops are a few of Her PleasurePain™ Techniques and She is constantly developing new ways to expand Fetish enjoyments.
As a ClassicFetish™ Therapist, The Mistress Didi*s practice is designed to help you expand your entire life ~ mind, body and spirit ~ through the appreciation of Fetish and how you express it. The goal is to come to terms with your Fetish, educate yourself to safe practices, and find healthy ways to express it in your private environment and with those you care about. The Mistress Didi* prides Her successes in helping couples to come to terms with how Fetish can be integrated into their lives together in a manner that respects both parties. Most often, couples discover new realms to improve their relationships and enhance their sensual and sexual love for each other. The Mistress Didi* carefully guides you in the steps you need to take in your self-acceptance, presentations to loved ones, and the progress of your relationships as they develop. As a relationship therapist, The Mistress Didi* is often introduced to Her joyous clients’ entire families and is invited to more holiday celebrations than She can possibly attend!
As well as being the Founder of The Fetish League, The Mistress Didi* is a Model, Speaker, Author, Fetish Facilitator, Certified Hypnotherapist, Certified Psychotherapist, Certified Nutritionist, Certified Aromatherapist, and a graduate of The Institute of Culinary Arts with a specialty in vegetarian cooking (see My Domain: Magick Potions). A former professionally trained dancer, The Mistress Didi* choreographs creative Fetish Performances to further enhance the understanding of the social benefits of the beauty of the BDSM and D/s Lifestyle. As a Fetish Performance Artist, The Mistress Didi* creates scenes with elegance, sophistication and grace that rise above and beyond the mainstream comprehension of sexual limitations into true works of sensual Art and Beauty for those involved and those observing. It is here that the Euphoria of Fetish is experienced, shared and cultivated and a deep sense of contentment is achieved.