My Philosophy of Fetish

The Mistress Didi*s Philosophy

The Mistress Didi* is insulted that the terms, “Mistress” and “Domme” are now synonyms for the “hoochies with whips” who lack the skill, training, style and finesse that true Dominatrices have honed with honor.  She* is disgusted by the decline of the Beauty of Fetish and BDSM from a zone of self-expression and exploration into the cesspool of sleaze.

The growing misconceptions of Fetish in the public view is perpetuated by those who always seek to exploit Art for the sake of financial gain.  Unfortunately, what was once a sensual discipline has become widely “sexploited”.  The pursuit of happiness and self-evolution has been replaced by the desire for instant gratification of kink.

The Mistress Didi* believes in Fetish as Therapeutic Art.  Her goal is to change the view of Fetish from the mainstream’s shameful negative to one of positive, self-growth and empowerment. The Mistress Didi*s experience has shown that as We accept Our Fetishes, We give Ourselves permission to be the best We can be in all aspects of Our lives.  It is Our duty to share this with The Whole and do Our part to alleviate the “fear of Fetish.”

As a therapist, The Mistress Didi* knows that freedom occurs when You break through limitations and permit self-acceptance without society’s judgment.  However, responsibility to Yourself does not fall short of the responsibility You have to the Community.  In other words, We do not live in a vacuum; Our actions affect Our surroundings.  Therefore, She* insists on the practice of safe, sane and consensual actions motivated by mutual pleasures in everything She* is involved with.

Instead of the “pay-for-kink” revenue generators that are a dime-a-dozen, The Mistress Didi*s Classic Fetish™ Events are opportunities for sharing Our best with The Community ~ Fetish and beyond.   She* carefully cultivates an environment where You are supported to converse, exchange and explore with P/people of like minds and varying experiences.  The Mistress Didi*s Classic Fetish™ Events include Play Parties, educational workshops, and performances where participants are encouraged to create scenes that are works of art where all are inspired.

The Mistress Didi* believes that through the experience and expression of Classic Fetish™ , We strengthen Our Community and create a Fetish World that is better than ever before.

Welcome to the Fetish Evolution.

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FREEbook http://askmistressdidi.com/1/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/readmynewsletter.gif Being a Lifestyle Dominant for Her entire life, The Mistress Didi* has explored various aspects of the BDSM and D/s Scenes including 24/7 relationships, slave ownership, Professional Domination (before it became synonymous with “hoochies with whips) and Fetish Event Planning. The Mistress Didi* has benefited from an extensive education in the functions of the human body and psyche, holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Therapy and is currently working on Her PhD.